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In the heart of the countryside, where the horizon stretches as far as the eye can see, marked by the undulating fields and the steadfast barns, there lies a story that is all too common yet seldom shared aloud. It’s a story of resilience, of love, and of the unyielding spirit of the farming community, particularly the indomitable farm wives who stand as the unsung heroines amidst the storm.
Today, I want to share a narrative that reflects the experiences of many farm families, a narrative of facing the daunting challenge of potential farm loss, financial strife, and the uncertain future that looms over like dark clouds before the rain. It is a story not of despair, but of hope and the unbreakable bond that holds families together when the fields do not yield what they hoped for.
Living in Limbo
Recent times have been unkind to us. With the cows needing feed, our line of credit maxed out, and no foreseeable income on the horizon, we found ourselves in a tight space, a reality familiar to too many of us. Add to it the shock of a significant loss - a set of calves stolen, with the owners withholding their yardage and feed payment, leaving us in a more precarious position than before.
Supply issues and financial constraints have made it impossible to balance the rations properly. The cows need to go off the corn stalks, but how? The tasks pile up, each day melding into the next with little progress, each sunset a reminder of the relentless passage of time and the tasks left undone.
In moments like these, it’s easy to feel isolated, adrift in a sea of uncertainty, with the threatening storm of financial ruin on the horizon. My husband’s meetings with the banker rarely bring hope. We are living in limbo, caught between the urgent need to act and the crippling lack of resources to do so.
A Testament to Resilience
But here, in the silence of the early dawn, watching the world come to life, I am reminded of the resilience that runs through our veins. Yes, the threat of losing the farm looms large, a specter that haunts our waking moments and our trouble dreams. Yet, within this trial, there lies a profound truth - we are more than our circumstances.
To my fellow farm wives, the partners in toil, and the keepers of hope, I write to you. This ordeal, though harrowing, does not define us. Together, we have weathered storms before, and it is together that we shall traverse this challenging period.
Finding Hope in Adversity
Hope is our most valuable asset. It’s the light that guides us through the darkest nights. It’s found in the small acts of kindness from our neighbors, the unwavering support of our personal community, and the silent prayers whispered in the dead of night. Hope resides in the belief that better days lie ahead, even when the present is clouded by uncertainty.
It’s crucial, now more than ever, to lean on each other, to share our stories and our struggles, offering a shoulder to lean on or an ear to listen. In these moments of vulnerability, we find strength. Our collective resilience becomes a beacon of hope, not just for our families, but for the entire farming community.
The Journey Ahead
The path before us is fraught with challenges, but it is not insurmountable. There will be days when the weight of the world seems too much to bear, when the fear of the unknown threatens to engulf us. On these days, remember that you are not alone. Together, as a community, we possess a wellspring of inner strength, enough to overcome any adversity.
This is not the end of our story; it's merely a chapter marked by trials, but one that leads to greater growth and understanding. The experience of facing the potential loss of the farm teaches us about what truly matters - our health, our family, and our friends.
To My Fellow Farm Wives
You are the heartbeats of the countryside, the unseen force that keeps the wheels turning even when the engine sputters. Your strength, grace, and resilience are the glue that holds everything together. Remember, behind every dark cloud is a silver lining, and after every storm comes calm.
In the face of uncertainty, hold tight to hope, for it is the bridge between despair and recovery. Though the road may be rough, know that you do not walk it alone. We stand together, bound by our shared experiences, our shared struggles, and our unyielding hope for better days ahead.
Stay strong, dear friends. For the land may be tough, but together, we are tougher. And in the end, it is not the storm that defines us, but how we choose to face it.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you're navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we're here for you. Explore gardening tips for cultivating your own oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let's grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
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I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
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As the sun sets on the sprawling fields, the sight of crops swaying gently to the rhythm of a cool evening breeze brings a sigh of relief. Harvest season is nigh, the fruits of our labor ready to be reaped. A simple tally of random numbers dances in our heads, stirring hope anew. With every kernel and blade heaved, we inch closer to the finish line, closer to solvency. We echo the silent prayer whispered under the breath of many, "Let it be, let it be so."
The struggle to sustain a farm and the relentless financial stress it brings is all too familiar to many farm wives. The bills pile up as the debt grows, a suffocating weight that has left us gasping for air. It's been a long, turbulent ride, one that has tested our resilience and endurance.
However, last year, we've embarked on a journey of simplification and refining, both in our personal lives and our businesses. The past years have taught us invaluable lessons about sustainability and the importance of a manageable pace. The farm, like life, is not a sprint; it's a carefully navigated journey that requires patience, foresight, and adaptation.
We've realized that we cannot maintain the breakneck pace we'd set for ourselves continuously. It's a race that eventually left us spent, devoid of the very energy needed to nurture our farms and families. We found the courage to simplify. In simplifying, we discovered that less often leads to more - more time, more energy, more freedom.
Simplifying, however, doesn't mean giving up or doing less; it implies making smart, calculated decisions. It's about optimizing our resources, our time, our energy, and our investments. It's about understanding what works for us and discarding what doesn't.
Just as we weed out our fields, we must root out the distractions and impediments in our lives. It's about refining our practices, embracing efficient farming techniques, and making full use of available technologies and resources. All this, in pursuit of an elusive, yet very achievable dream: financial freedom.
As we enter this planting season, let us remember that we are not alone. Together, we can cross that finish line, chipping away at the towering mountain of debt, bit by bit. Let this be the year we break free from the shackles of financial strain and breathe in the air of stability. Let this be the year of simplifying and refining.
Let it be. Let it be so.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you're navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we're here for you. Explore gardening tips for cultivating your own oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let's grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
Join the FREE Community
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I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
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When we said yes, to taking on the family farm, with all its debt, we knew that it was going to be a hard road. That we had a mountain to climb. What I did not realize at the time was just how long and hard that road was going to be. I was prepared for a couple of hard years. A Sprint. Buckle down, grind, and get ahead.
But what it's actually been, is a marathon. A hard marathon. One that's uphill, through storms, and the weather beating down on you.
I was listening to something from Trent Shelton and it caught my attention. We all go through storms. How do we choose to see that storm determines what we do with it and how it affects our life.
Are you seeing this farm storm as something that's beating you down? Are you seeing it as something that is building you up, strengthening you and preparing you for something greater?
See, I've spent the past four, almost 5 years. Was my head to the grindstone trying to pinch things out. Personal and business finances alike. Minimizing all the costs I can, just to try and make ends meet and books balance.
It's left me stressed. It left me burned out. I don't enjoy this life right now. The life we chose to build. So that our kids can have the farm life we dream of.
During the nights I would go to bed wishing we had just walked away in 2020. Sold everything, picked up our cows and left. Did we? No. We chose to stay because the roots of our family run deep, 100 years deep and we chose to fight for it. We chose to stay. To dig down into those roots and rebuild. To build it better, so they can start off on a good foundation. Not with a crumbling foundation and mountain of debt that we got.
It was and is hard. We made it through the first year. It was hard. The second year was harder. We physically made it through. But the books didn't balance, it was red. Not black, not break even, it was red. At the end of the year.
By God's grace, the bank gave us one more year to try again. That year was 2023. We ran the year with maxed out credit lines, and bills piled high. At the end of the year, two of our landlords pulled their ground. The bank called the notes and now we’re liquidating.
Looking back, what we should have done back in 2020, is happening now. We should have let the family farm fall then and then picked up the pieces, if any, that were left. We gave everyone 3 more years on the family farm. Was it worth it? I honestly don’t know. We paid for it with our health.
The only thing to do now is to move forward. Pick up the pieces. Simplify and continue to pay off the debt that is left.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you're navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we're here for you. Explore gardening tips for cultivating your own oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let's grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
Join the FREE Community
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I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
For more on wellness tips click here:
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Living in a rural area can be tough at times, especially when it comes to food. While we have access to fresh fruits and vegetables from our gardens, it can be tough to find certain pantry staples at our local grocery store, especially if you have food allergies like corn, soy, or gluten. That’s why I’ve turned to Azure Standard for all my non-perishable needs. Azure Standard is a bulk buying co-op that delivers to a local town and you pick up. It’s easy, affordable, and helps me keep my pantry stocked with all the essentials. Let’s take a closer look at the benefits of using Azure Standard and what items I regularly order for my pantry.
Bulk Buying: Azure Standard is a co-op that allows you to bulk buy items at a discounted rate. As a farm wife, this is ideal for me because I can order large quantities of items that I use frequently, like oats and rice. Not only is it cost-effective to buy in bulk, but it also ensures that I have enough of these essential items to last me for several months.
Variety: Another great benefit of using Azure Standard is the wide variety of items that they offer. From dried fruit to nut butter, they have everything you need to stock your pantry. Plus, they offer a selection of organic and non-GMO items, so you can feel good about the food you’re putting on your family’s table. I regularly order items like pecans, dried pineapple, and potato starch, which are hard to find at my local grocery store.
Convenience: Azure Standard’s ordering process is extremely convenient and flexible. You can place an order whenever you need to, whether that’s monthly, quarterly, or sporadically throughout the year. Plus, they offer a emailing system that alerts you when your order closing date is approaching, and when your delivery is scheduled to arrive, so you know exactly when to expect it. This makes it easy to work around your schedule and ensure that you’re always fully stocked with pantry staples.
Financially-Smart: Finally, using Azure Standard can be financially smart. By purchasing in bulk, you’ll save money in the long run. Plus, you’ll cut down on the time and gas money it takes to drive to the grocery store. This is especially helpful for working moms who want to save money and time while still providing nutritious meals for their families.
Rural living can be challenging at times, especially when it comes to food. However, using Azure Standard has made my life a whole lot easier. I can order all my pantry items in bulk, then pick them up once a month tops, and save money in the process. Plus, their wide variety of items ensures that my pantry is always fully stocked with essentials.
I highly recommend using Azure Standard for anyone who lives in a rural area and wants a simple and affordable way to stock their pantry. You can try it for yourself using the link here.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you're navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we're here for you. Explore gardening tips for cultivating your own oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let's grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
Join the FREE Community
Join the FREE Community
I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
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For more on homesteading on your budget click here:
This post may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, with NO additional cost to you.
There comes a time, when you are so far in debt, and the collectors start calling. That you don't even enjoy going places. You don't enjoy going to town anymore. Because the people you see, especially in the small town, are the ones you owe money to, sometimes quite a bit of money.
You're thankful that they're patient with you while the crops come in. Trusting that you will pay them eventually. But it still hurts. To look at them and try and pretend that everything is fine. When you know that there's a mountain of debt. And you're not sure you can climb it.
Making the phone calls, answering the calls. Saying yes, we'll get you paid. While at the same time knowing you will. But you're not sure when or how. That's what taking on a mountain of debt is like.
The hiding. The never leaving the farm, because you do honestly enjoy your home, but going to town to face everyone is just to much.
You hate fake people and the small town gossip. If you go to town, you deal with that. Ignore the questioning doubtful eyes you feel watching you. The small talk that never goes anywhere. You avoid the grocery store during the busy time, simply so you don’t have to see the others in the community.
You're OK to everybody. Who doesn't know the mess you’re in? They surely speculate and talk, but no one know the full extent. You smile and say “OK” when someone asks how you’re doing. At the same time, you're screaming inside that “I'm falling apart. I don't know if I can handle the pressure. And I don't know when it's going to get better.”
Slowly you heal. Heal your body. Heal your mind. The mountain is still there. You still answer the calls and politely explain that yes, we’ll get you paid eventually. You still cringe every time a bank letter comes. You still don’t like going to town. But you feel better. You don’t feel like you’re drowning.
When you’re going through farm loss, it feels like you are alone. That you are dying a slow painful death as your life dream slips away.
But you’re not.
I’ve been there. I am there. Four long years there.
I’ve been through the hope of, “it’ll be tough but we can turn it around.”
I’ve been through disaster after disaster taking the crops.
I’ve been through the painful meetings.
I’ve been through the painful endings. Selling the equipment and livestock.
You are not alone. I’m here and so are many more women. Come join us in the Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network. Heal and move forward. The link for our group is linked below.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you're navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we're here for you. Explore gardening tips for cultivating your own oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let's grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
Join the FREE Community
Join the FREE Community
I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
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For more on homesteading on your budget click here:
This post may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, with NO additional cost to you.
As a busy mom and farm wife, staying healthy has always been a top priority for me. Whether it's juggling multiple tasks on my to-do list or braving the elements on the farm, I need to keep my energy levels up and my immune system strong. That's why my family and I have relied on Ningxia Red Juice for years. This powerful drink has given us the boost we need to stay on top of our game. In this blog post, I'll be sharing the amazing benefits of Ningxia Red and how you can make it a part of your daily routine.
What is Ningxia Red Juice?
Ningxia Red is a powerful drink made from whole fruits and essential oils that come from the Ningxia region of China. The main ingredient is the wolfberry, also known as the goji berry, which is packed with antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals. The other ingredients include blueberry, aronia, cherry, pomegranate, and plum juices, along with essential oils like orange, lemon, and yuzu. When these ingredients are combined, they create a potent elixir that can boost energy levels, support brain function, and strengthen the immune system.
Benefits of Ningxia Red Juice
Boosts Energy Levels: The combination of fruits and essential oils in Ningxia Red Juice provides a natural boost of energy without the crash that can come with caffeine. It's the perfect pick-me-up to get you through a busy day or a tough workout.
Supports Brain Function: The nutrients in Ningxia Red Juice can help to improve cognitive function, memory retention, and mental clarity. This can be especially helpful for busy moms who need to stay alert and focused throughout the day.
Strengthens the Immune System: The antioxidants and vitamins in wolfberries are known to boost the immune system and protect against illness. Drinking Ningxia Red can help to guard against colds and flu while also reducing inflammation in the body.
Promotes Healthy Digestion: Ningxia Red contains enzymes and prebiotics that can support healthy digestion and promote regularity. This can be especially helpful for anyone who struggles with digestive issues or irregularity.
Integrating Ningxia Red into Your Daily Routine
Now that you know the amazing benefits of Ningxia Red, you may be wondering how to incorporate it into your daily routine. Here are a few tips to get you started:
Start Small: If you're new to Ningxia Red, start by drinking a small amount each day and gradually work your way up to a full serving.
Mix it Up: Experiment with different ways to drink Ningxia Red, such as adding it to smoothies, mixing it with sparkling water, or even using it as a mixer for cocktails.
Create a Daily Ritual: Make Ningxia Red a part of your daily routine by drinking it at the same time each day. This can help you establish a healthy habit that will benefit your body over time.
In conclusion, Ningxia Red is an incredible drink that can have a powerful impact on your health and wellbeing. Whether you're a busy mom, a farm wife, or just looking to boost your energy levels and strengthen your immune system, Ningxia Red is an excellent choice. By incorporating this potent elixir into your daily routine, you'll be giving your body the nutrients it needs to stay healthy and strong. So why not give it a try and experience the benefits for yourself?
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Loss: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you're navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we're here for you. Explore gardening tips for cultivating your own oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let's grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
Join the FREE Community
Join the FREE Community
I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
For more on wellness tips click here:
For more on homesteading on your budget click here:
This post may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, with NO additional cost to you.
It's a familiar scenario. You're sitting in your living room, and all you can see is the clutter that's accumulated throughout the house. Suddenly, you feel a wave of stress wash over you. Maybe you can't quite put your finger on why the mess is bothering you so much. But the truth is, clutter can have a significant impact on your overall mental health. In this blog post, we'll explore the reasons why clutter can be so unsettling and offer some practical tips on how to start tackling it one small step at a time.
First, it's essential to acknowledge that clutter can be a source of stress for many of us. The way our homes are presented to us has a direct impact on our mental and emotional well-being. It's hard to feel calm and relaxed when surrounded by piles of clothes on the bed, dishes in the sink, and toys strewn everywhere. While we all have different tolerance levels for mess and clutter, research has shown that people who describe their homes as cluttered tend to experience higher levels of stress and depression.
Second, it's essential to understand that clutter can trigger feelings of anxiety and overwhelm. When our environment is chaotic and disorganized, it can feel like we're constantly playing catch-up, which can be exhausting. This is especially true for busy working moms or farm wives who often don't have much free time. Having to navigate around piles of objects or hunting for things that we can't find can be detrimental to our mental health.
The good news is that there are some practical steps you can take to tackle clutter and improve your well-being. One helpful tip is to start small and focus on one area at a time. This could be a single closet, a shelf in the kitchen, or a drawer in your desk. By breaking down the task into bite-sized chunks, it can feel more manageable. When you've completed one area, move onto the next, and gradually work your way around the house.
Another useful strategy is to declutter regularly and consistently. Instead of waiting until the mess has reached breaking point, make a habit of setting aside a few minutes each day to tidy up. This could be the first thing in the morning, before bed, or during a break from work. By approaching decluttering as an ongoing task, it will feel less overwhelming, and your home will be more organized overall.
During the decluttering process, it's essential to create three different piles: Keep, sell or give away, and trash. Be honest with yourself about what you need to keep and what's simply taking up space. Items that are in good condition but no longer serve a purpose, or haven’t been used in years, can be sold or donated. Anything that is truly beyond repair or use, should be thrown away. Remember, you're simplifying your living space, so don't hold onto things out of guilt or obligation. Let the things move on to help the next person.
Clutter can have a significant impact on our mental health, causing feelings of stress, anxiety, and overwhelm. Trying to tackle clutter in one go can be overwhelming, so it's important to break it down into small, manageable chunks. Regular and consistent decluttering is essential to keep your home tidy and organized. Sorting items into three piles – keep, sell or give away, and trash – can help you to streamline your possessions and create a space that is calming and relaxing. By simplifying your living space, you're creating a more peaceful environment for yourself and your family. So why not take that first step towards decluttering today? Your mental health will thank you for it!
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Have you ever heard of tallow? It's that random thing on a beef carcass that most people tend to overlook. But did you know that tallow, or rendered beef fat, is actually really useful in cooking? For moms who have food allergies in the house and are wanting to save a few dollars, tallow might just become your new cooking friend. In this blog post, we'll explore the many benefits of using tallow in your cooking and baking.
Tallow is a perfect substitute for butter or oil. It has a high smoke point, meaning it won't burn easily, and it has a neutral flavor, making it versatile for use in both sweet and savory dishes. Whether you're sautéing vegetables, frying chicken, or baking biscuits, tallow can be used as a healthy and flavorful alternative to other cooking fats.
Tallow is a great source of nutrients. It is rich in B vitamins, vitamin E, and minerals like iron, zinc, and selenium. These nutrients are crucial for maintaining a healthy immune system, strong bones, and optimal brain function. By incorporating tallow into your cooking, you'll be adding a nutrient boost to your meals that may be lacking in other cooking fats.
Tallow is an affordable option. Because it's a byproduct of the meat industry, tallow is often available at a cheaper price than other cooking fats. This makes it a cost-effective option for families who are looking to save money on their grocery bills. Plus, since tallow has a longer shelf life than other fats, you can buy it in bulk and store it in your pantry for future use.
Tallow is easy to make at home. If you're up for a DIY project, you can make your own tallow at home by slow-cooking beef fat until it melts down into a liquid. You can get the complete directions here. I promise they are super simple. Making your own tallow not only saves money, but it also gives you control over the quality and source of your cooking fat.
Tallow is environmentally friendly. Unlike vegetable oils, tallow is a sustainable and eco-friendly option for cooking. By using tallow, you're reducing your carbon footprint and supporting the use of a renewable resource. Plus, since tallow is a natural product, it doesn't contain any of the harmful chemicals or additives that can be found in processed cooking fats.
Tallow may be something you've never considered using before in your cooking, but it's worth the try. Not only is it a healthy and versatile cooking fat, but it's also affordable, easy to make at home, and environmentally friendly. By incorporating tallow into your meals, you'll be adding a nutrient boost and a unique flavor to your dishes. So go ahead, give tallow a chance – it may just become your new cooking staple.
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Farm Loss Support for the Farm Wife group! This group is for support and helping each other to move forward. This group is NOT for venting, bashing, or wallowing in pity. My goal is to help others who have been where I was looking at losing the farm or losing the farm and wanting somewhere to talk where people would understand.
This is NOT for staying stuck in the trenches. It IS for moving forward in life, with purpose and sanity.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
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Have you ever heard of tallow? It may seem like a random thing on a beef carcass that no one thinks about, but it's actually quite useful. If you're a mom looking to save a few dollars on lip balm and eliminate toxins from your beauty routine, making your own lip balm from tallow might be an option for you. In this blog post, I'll share my favorite recipe for tallow lip balm that I love to carry with me on the go during the harsh winter months.
Tallow is rendered beef fat and has been used for centuries in many skin care products. Its natural fatty acids help nourish and moisturize the skin. Mixing tallow with other nourishing ingredients can make a great lip balm perfect for winter weather.
Here is a simple recipe for tallow lip balm:
Ingredients:
- 3 tbsp coconut oil
- 1 tsp tallow
- 1 tbsp beeswax
- 1 tsp honey
- 6-8 drops essential oil
Make sure to use a high quality pure essential oil to avoid nasties. You can grab some of my favorite brand with the link here
Instructions:
- In a double boiler, melt the tallow, coconut oil, and beeswax.
- Once melted, stir in the honey.
- Remove the mixture from heat and stir in the essential oils.
- Carefully pour the mixture into small containers or chap-stick tubes.
- Allow several hours for the mixture to completely harden.
Coconut oil and beeswax help to moisturize and protect the lips. Honey works as a natural humectant that helps retain moisture. Essential oils such as peppermint, lavender or grapefruit oil add a lovely scent and additional benefits to the lip balm.
Using tallow lip balm can help prevent dry and chapped lips during the winter months. It can be used alone or as a base before applying lipstick.
The easiest option to finding tallow is to ask your local butcher or farmer for beef fat trimmings. You will have to render it down yourself. You can find those directions here. Alternatively, you can also purchase tallow on our online store here.
Tallow lip balm is a DIY solution that is easy to create and customize. It can benefit your lips in multiple ways while saving you money and avoiding any harsh chemicals in store-bought lip balms. With just a few simple ingredients and a little bit of time, you can create a useful and nourishing winter necessity. Give it a try and let me know how it works for you!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Farm Loss Support for the Farm Wife group! This group is for support and helping each other to move forward. This group is NOT for venting, bashing, or wallowing in pity. My goal is to help others who have been where I was looking at losing the farm or losing the farm and wanting somewhere to talk where people would understand.
This is NOT for staying stuck in the trenches. It IS for moving forward in life, with purpose and sanity.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
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Tallow is the rendered fat from beef carcasses, often overlooked as just a random thing discarded after butchering. However, tallow has numerous benefits and uses, including making your own lotion that is free from extra toxins found in store-bought products. For moms looking to save a few dollars while giving their hands some extra TLC during harsh winter months, this recipe for DIY hand cream made from tallow is perfect!
To make this nourishing hand cream, all you need is 1/4 cup of tallow, 1/8 cup of sweet almond oil, 1 tablespoon of beeswax, and 10-20 drops of your preferred essential oil. Make sure to use a high quality pure essential oil to avoid nasties. You can grab some of my favorite brand with the link here
The sweet almond oil adds moisture and nourishment, while beeswax helps with consistency and texture. The essential oil not only adds a lovely scent to your lotion but also provides skin benefits.
Start by melting the tallow, sweet almond oil, and beeswax in a double boiler over low heat. Once everything is melted, remove from the heat and let it cool for 5-10 minutes. This step is important to avoid adding essential oils to the hot mixture, which may impact their therapeutic properties.
After the mixture has cooled down, stir in the essential oils of your choice. Lavender is an excellent option for its calming properties, while peppermint can offer a refreshing sensation. Pour the mixture into small tins or containers and allow it to harden for several hours.
Once the lotion has hardened, it's ready to use! This DIY tallow lotion is suitable for everyone in the family, including children and babies. The presence of natural ingredients means that it's gentle for all skin types and provides nourishing moisture that lasts.
The easiest option to finding tallow is to ask your local butcher or farmer for beef fat trimmings. You will have to render it down yourself. You can find those directions here. Alternatively, you can also purchase tallow on my family farm’s online store here.
Don't let tallow be a forgotten part of cow meat and instead harness its benefits with this easy DIY hand cream recipe! It's not only easy on the pockets but is also free from unwanted toxins found in store-bought counterparts. With just a few ingredients and some essential oils, this homemade lotion will keep your hands and skin hydrated and soft all winter long!
As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Farm Loss Support for the Farm Wife group! This group is for support and helping each other to move forward. This group is NOT for venting, bashing, or wallowing in pity. My goal is to help others who have been where I was looking at losing the farm or losing the farm and wanting somewhere to talk where people would understand.
This is NOT for staying stuck in the trenches. It IS for moving forward in life, with purpose and sanity.
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life.
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible.
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I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma
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