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DIY Kid-Safe Bug Spray: The Simple Recipe We’ve Used for Years on Kids, Dogs, and Everything In Between

Summer on a Nebraska farm is beautiful — and buggy. With three kids who want to be outside from sunup to sundown, I needed a bug spray I could actually feel good about using. No harsh chemicals, no warning labels about children. Just a simple, effective DIY recipe we’ve used for years on our kids, our dogs, and everything in between. Here’s exactly what goes in it.

10 Low-Cost Tips to Ease the Memorial Day Weekend Stress for Farm Moms

Memorial Day weekend is supposed to be restful—but for farm wives, it often just feels like regular life with a Monday tacked on. Here are 10 low-cost, real-life ways to lower the stress and actually make memories this weekend, even in the middle of a hard season.

Easy Gluten-Free Dairy-Free Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Cookies (Flourless & Farm-Family Approved)

Some evenings, after the chores are done and the house finally goes quiet, all I want is something sweet and simple. These flourless peanut butter chocolate chip cookies are naturally gluten-free, dairy-free, and made with ingredients most farm kitchens already have. They come together in 15 minutes — and they never last until morning.

When Farm Life Is Harder Than You Expected (And How Faith Holds You Together)

There’s a moment every farm wife knows. You’re standing at the edge of a field — or sitting at the kitchen table at 11 p.m. staring at a spreadsheet — and the thought creeps in: This is so much harder than I thought it was going to be. I’ve been there. I am there. And here’s what I’ve learned about doing hard things when the mountain turns out to be higher than you expected.

How Farm Wives Can Lower Stress When Life on the Land Gets Heavy

There’s a particular kind of tired that farm wives know. It’s not just the early mornings or the physical labor—it’s carrying the emotional center of an operation that never fully clocks out.
I’ve been that woman standing at the edge of a field, watching the sunset, trying to figure out if I was grateful or exhausted or both.
Most days, the answer was both.
If you’re in a heavy season right now, this post is for you. Not more things to add to your already-full plate—but 10 faith-rooted, farm-tested strategies to help you find solid ground again. Including the one tool I didn’t expect to need… and now genuinely can’t imagine going without.

Emotional Releasing

Unbury & Release Emotions Bring the emotions up and let them go. Even the hidden ones that are causing disease in your body Stop burying and shoving the emotions down Let the emotions go and free your mind from the baggage Allow your body to finish healing and...
When Farm Finances Feel Like an Uphill Marathon (And What I Wish I’d Known Sooner)
When Farm Finances Feel Like an Uphill Marathon (And What I Wish I’d Known Sooner)

You know that feeling when you’re lying in bed at 2 AM, running numbers in your head for the third time this week? When you’re wondering if you should’ve walked away years ago? I recorded a voice memo about this in July 2022. I tried to publish it in March 2024, right before we filed bankruptcy. I couldn’t—it was too raw. But if you’re in the middle of your own financial storm right now, you need to hear this. Because the storm eventually ends, even when you can’t see how.

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When the Weight of Farm Debt Makes You Want to Hide
When the Weight of Farm Debt Makes You Want to Hide

There’s a moment that happens when you’re deep in farm debt. Not the kind you can pay off next month—the kind that sits on your chest at 3 AM and makes every phone call feel like dread. It’s the moment you stop going to town. Because the people you see at the co-op, the feed store, at church—they’re the ones you owe money to. And even though they’ve been patient, it doesn’t make it easier to look them in the eye. If you’re carrying the weight of farm debt, financial strain, or watching your dream slip away—you’re not alone. I’ve been there. I am there. And there’s a way to keep breathing, even when the mountain is still standing.

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The Clutter That’s Stealing Your Peace (And Why You’re Not Failing)
The Clutter That’s Stealing Your Peace (And Why You’re Not Failing)

I stood at my kitchen sink the other morning, and all I could see was chaos. Dishes in the sink. School books on the table. Three pairs of muddy boots somehow in the house. And that tight feeling in my chest that whispered, “I can’t keep up with all of this.”
Here’s the hard truth nobody tells farm wives: the clutter in your home is directly affecting your mental health. And you’re not weak for feeling it.
If you’re overwhelmed by the mess and tired of feeling like you’re failing, I’m sharing what I learned the hard way—and the practical steps that helped me start reclaiming my peace without adding one more thing to my to-do list.

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How Busy Farm Wives Can Stay Healthy Without Adding to Their To-Do List
How Busy Farm Wives Can Stay Healthy Without Adding to Their To-Do List

You’re running between the barn, the house, and the kids—and you realize you haven’t eaten anything except cold coffee and whatever the toddler didn’t finish. Sound familiar? Your health keeps sliding to the bottom of the list, but it doesn’t have to be another overwhelming project. Here’s how to take care of yourself without adding more to your already-full plate.

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As I’ve grown as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on Amazon.
Don’t want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own. 
 
Wanting a community to lean into? Join the FREE Thriving Through Farm Life: Wife’s Support Network! In our community, we embrace the challenges of farm life and provide a supportive space for wives facing the complexities of managing a family farm. Whether you’re navigating financial pressures, day-to-day operations, or seeking ways to create a thriving home, we’re here for you. Explore garden and preservation tips for cultivating your oasis, share insights on animal care, and discover practical family budgeting strategies. Together, let’s grow through challenges, flourish authentically, and sow the seeds for a resilient and thriving farm life. Join us on this journey of resilience and abundance! 
                                                                                                                    
Starting a garden doesn’t have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I’ve learned over my gardening seasons and made them into a simple course to jump-start your gardening life. 

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Everyone wants a healthier home with less illness. But how and where do you start? Jump into my free membership, where I share the tips I’ve learned since my journey started in 2016. Tips range from nutrition, herbs, detoxing, natural cleaning, and using essential oils with kids.  
                
I’ve had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned how to care for my body naturally preventing common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will give you the tools you need to have a natural healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal Western medicine pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma

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