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I still remember the first time I knelt down next to a raised bed with dirt under my fingernails and realized my shoulders had dropped about three inches from where they’d been all morning.
I hadn’t set out to relax. I’d gone out to weed because it needed done. But somewhere between pulling crabgrass and checking on the tomatoes, something in me unclenched.
That accidental garden back in 2019 wasn’t supposed to be a wellness practice. It was supposed to keep food on the table when our income dropped and we needed a plan B. But somewhere along the way, it became something more than survival. It became one of the healthiest habits in our entire homestead life — and I don’t just mean because of the vegetables.
This is Week 1 of our Growing It mini-series, and before we talk about seeds, soil, or square footage, I want to answer the question a lot of you have asked me one way or another: is gardening actually good for you? Or is it just one more thing on the to-do list?
Here’s what I’ve learned after years of hands in the dirt.
Gardening Grounds You — Literally
There’s a reason a bad day feels a little less bad after an hour in the garden.
Our bodies naturally build up positive electrical charge, especially under stress — and if you’re a farm wife raising kids, running a house, and holding a family together through hard seasons, you know stress. The surface of the earth carries a negative charge. When you’re barefoot in the grass or elbow-deep in garden soil, you’re allowing your body to release that built-up charge and return to neutral. It’s called grounding, and it’s a real, physical process — not just a nice feeling.
What I love about gardening is that it lets you ground yourself without having to sit still and “do nothing.” For those of us who feel restless trying to meditate, gardening gives your Type A brain a task while your nervous system quietly resets underneath it. You’re accomplishing something and healing something at the same time.
Gardening Is a Whole-Body Workout You Didn’t Have to Schedule
Nobody warns you that hauling a five-gallon bucket of tomatoes across the yard counts as strength training.
Lifting harvest baskets, pulling weeds, digging holes, reaching for produce, pushing a loaded wheelbarrow — your body is working the entire time you’re out there, even when it doesn’t feel like “exercise.” Add in the bigger seasonal jobs like pruning fruit trees or clearing brush, and you’re working muscles most of us never touch on purpose.
That physical effort releases endorphins, the same feel-good chemicals you’d chase in a workout class — except you walk away with green beans instead of a sweaty gym towel. On the days I don’t think I have the energy to do anything productive, the garden somehow gives me energy back instead of taking it.
Gardening Gives You Something to Be Proud Of
There’s a specific kind of satisfaction in watching something go from seed to harvest under your own care.
It doesn’t have to be complicated. Even a small pot of herbs on a windowsill, harvested a few leaves at a time, gives you that same reward loop — you did something, it worked, and you get to see the proof of it. For a farm wife in a season that can feel like an endless list of things that need fixing, feeding, or figuring out, that steady, visible progress matters more than it sounds like it should.
This is part of why I’ve come to believe gardening isn’t just a task on the homestead — it’s a mindset. It teaches patience. It teaches that good things take a season to grow, not a to-do list to check off in a day. That’s stewardship, not hustle, and your mental health notices the difference.
And Yes — the Food Matters Too
I’d be leaving something out if I didn’t mention the obvious: what you grow yourself is simply better food. You control what touches it, when it’s picked, and how fresh it is on your family’s plate. After years of growing a large portion of our own food, I can tell you the nutrition difference isn’t imaginary — it’s something you taste and feel.
But even on the years I’ve scaled the garden back — like this year, when I finally let some of my raised beds turn into perennial beds instead of starting from scratch every spring — the emotional, physical, and mental benefits are still there. You don’t need 90% of your food coming out of your backyard to get the good out of gardening. You just need to get your hands in the dirt.
You’re Not Behind — You’re Just Getting Started
If you’ve never grown anything before, or if your last garden attempt didn’t survive July, hear me on this: gardening doesn’t require a homestead, acreage, or a green thumb passed down from your grandmother. It requires a patch of dirt, a little patience, and a willingness to let it be simple.
This month in the Growing It series, we’re going to walk through exactly how to start — from your very first bed to keeping it alive through a Nebraska summer. But for today, I just want you to know that whatever led you to the garden — whether it’s grocery prices, a desire for better food, or just needing somewhere to breathe — you’re not behind. You’re just in a different season, and this one might be the one that grounds you.
Ready to actually start? My Homesteading Planner is now blank on purpose — no set start date, no wasted months if you pick it up in September instead of January. You can begin wherever you are and roll forward a full 12 months from there. It’s the tool I use every season to keep my garden simple instead of overwhelming.
As I’ve grown as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on Amazon.
Don’t want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own.
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