Dear Farm Wife: What I Wish I'd Known Before We Lost Everything
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I remember the pride and excitement when Jeremy and I first took over his family's farm. What I didn't know then – what I wish someone had told me – was that love for farming isn't enough. Four years after taking over, we lost everything to a perfect storm of high debt, storms, and equipment failures. We had no reserves, no clear understanding of our costs, and no real business plan.
 
Today, I help young farm families avoid our mistakes by conducting thorough business analysis before taking over. Here's why each part matters:
 
Financial Health Analysis
You need to know more than just the total income. Examine each enterprise separately – your custom haying operation might be masking losses in your grain business, or vice versa. 
 
Understanding profitability by enterprise lets you make informed decisions about where to invest your limited resources. Don’t be afraid to cut an enterprise that is draining your resources. 
 
Working Capital Needs
Farming isn't just about annual profits. You need significant cash reserves to handle unexpected equipment repairs, take advantage of input sales, or survive when Mother Nature doesn't cooperate. Without understanding your true working capital needs, you're one bad season away from disaster.
 
Equipment Evaluation
That "still good" combine might run, but what's the true cost of maintaining it? Sometimes taking on payments for new equipment actually costs less than constant repairs. A proper analysis helps you plan equipment replacements before they become emergencies.
 
Written Agreements
Those handshake deals with neighbors might have worked for the previous generation, but they leave you vulnerable. Proper lease agreements, clear partnership terms, and written contracts protect everyone and help you plan accurately.
 
Marketing Strategy
"Sell when we need money" isn't a strategy – it's a recipe for selling at the wrong time. Understanding your break-even costs and having a proper marketing plan can mean the difference between profit and loss in volatile markets.
 
Remember, asking for this analysis isn't about distrusting the older generation. It's about protecting the legacy they built. Don't let romance cloud your business judgment like I did.
 
With hope for your success, 
Cassandra
 
P.S. If you ever need someone to talk to who's been there, my inbox is always open.
 
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