What is the first thing to focus on when becoming Self-sufficient?

What is the first thing to focus on when becoming Self-sufficient?

 

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When your goal is self-sufficiency, you must have food and a way to grow your food. Vegetables and fruits are the biggest, need in the food department. Growing a garden is the best way to solve this problem. Starting an orchard is a good way to get your fruits. Turning the orchard or garden into a polyculture benefits you and the wildlife and plants you are growing. 

 

Gardening is fairly straight forward. There an many different methods now, Back to Eden, Square Foot Gardening, traditional row garden, or a mix of them. I used to think that the pretty flowers were not something I should invest in, but as I have learned more about polycultures, I have found they actually have benefits beyond looking good. Many pretty flowers are also pollinator attractors. They smell and look attractive to the bees and butterflies that will also help your garden vegetable plants pollinate better. 

 

Orchards take time to develop. But have the advantage of many years of produce. Turning a small space into a polyculture orchard, with trees, berry bushes, and flowers is an effective way to maximize use of a limited space. Orchards especially benefit from the polyculture planting. By planting perennial companion plants around the trees and bushes, you can deter pests you don’t want, but attract the pollinators you do want. 

 

When growing your garden or orchard it will not benefit you to grow a bunch of food your family will not eat. I like to buy a little of something I’m considering growing before I commit the space and energy into growing it. This allows me to determine if my family will even like or learn to like the food. So grow primarily what you will consume, but give a little space to experiment if you want. 

 

In either an annual garden or orchard, map out where you plan to grow the plants. This helps you organize how to arrange the garden, plant quicker, and keep track of where things are planted when little helpers pull up the tags (not that I would have any experience with that…). The Homesteading Organizer is a perfect place to organize your garden or orchard in a book, you won’t loose the maps either. You can get a peak inside the organizer before you buy it here

 

 

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As I've grown in  my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So I MADE MY OWN. You can take a look at it on the link blow and buy it on amazon below
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own. 

Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life. 

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Fall Garden Tips for Farm Wives and Home Gardeners

Fall Garden Tips for Farm Wives and Home Gardeners
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Fall is here, bringing cooler air and the final harvests of the year. But it’s also a time to prepare your garden for next season. With some simple steps, you can ensure your soil remains fertile and ready to produce a bountiful harvest next year. Let's explore how to make the most of this beautiful season in your garden.
Understanding Fall Gardening
Fall gardening is more than just letting your garden rest. It's about nurturing the soil and preparing it for the next growing season. By taking care of your garden now, you’re setting yourself up for success in the coming year.
Why Focus on Soil Preparation?
Healthy soil is the foundation of a thriving garden. By enriching your soil in the fall, you ensure it has the nutrients it needs to support your plants. This is particularly important for farm wives and home gardeners who rely on their gardens for food security and sustainability.
Steps to Prepare Your Garden for Fall
1. Plant Cover Crops
Early fall is the perfect time to plant cover crops like clover, radishes, or rye. These crops help retain moisture and add essential nutrients to the soil. Plus, they prevent erosion and improve soil structure. Give these crops at least one month before the killing frost to establish themselves. 
2. Grow Cold-Hardy Vegetables
Consider planting cold-hardy vegetables such as lettuce, spinach, and kale. These greens can withstand cooler temperatures and provide fresh produce even as the weather turns chilly. Just remember to plant them 1-2 months before the first frost. Then insulate them when the freezing weather comes. Snow works really well for this. 
3. Conduct Soil Testing
Fall is an excellent time to test your soil. Knowing its nutrient levels allows you to make informed decisions about fertilization and amendments. This ensures your soil is well-prepared for spring planting.
4. Plant Bulbs
Once the soil temperature drops to 50-60 degrees, it’s time to plant garlic, onions, and flower bulbs. Wildflower mixes can also be sown after the first freeze. The freeze-thaw cycle helps these seeds germinate when the weather warms up.
5. Clean Up the Garden
After the first killing frost, remove any remaining plant supports like tomato cages or bean trellises. Lay any dead vines on the ground, but be sure to burn any diseased plants to prevent future issues.
6. Add Compost
Gather your family and start hauling compost to your garden beds. Aim for 1-2 inches of compost in traditional gardens and fill up raised beds. This will vary depending on your soil test. Using manure from horses, sheep, goats, cattle, or chickens is ideal, as it will continue to decompose over the winter, enriching the soil.
7. Mulch for Moisture and Weed Control
If you are using no-till methods, cover your compost with 4-6 inches of mulch. This helps retain moisture and suppress weeds, making your gardening tasks easier in the spring. It also checks one thing off your list for spring. Just move the mulch a bit and plant your plants. 
Reflect and Plan for the Future
Take time to relax and reflect on your gardening season. Review any notes you made about what you planted, how much you harvested, and what you might want to change next year. Planning ahead can make a significant difference in your garden’s productivity and your peace of mind.
Gardening in the fall is an opportunity to invest in the future of your home garden. By following these steps, you’re not only improving your soil but also ensuring a more successful and sustainable gardening season next year.
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Remember, every small step you take now will lead to a bountiful harvest next year. You've got this!



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As I've grown in my journey as an entrepreneur, mom, gardener, and livestock owner, I struggled to find a planner that met my needs and kept me organized. So, I MADE MY OWN. You can look at it on the link below and buy it on amazon below.
Don't want the whole calendar part? I got you! I pulled the gardening and animal care pages out and put them in a book all their own. 
 
Starting to garden doesn't have to be hard! I gathered all the tips I've learned over my gardening learning curve and made them into a simple course to jump start your gardening your life. 
 
Supporting Your Family Naturally from the Inside Out community!! This community is for Mommas, looking to Support Your Family from Nature for Wellness. Tips range from nutrition, herbals, detoxing, natural cleaning, and essential oils. Basically, all the things I’ve learned slowly over the past 5+ years of my journey. We have moved off Facebook, to better serve our community and be able to discuss openly options for providing for your family in the best way possible. 
 
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I've had 3 very different pregnancies. After the first traumatic birth, I learned better and how to care for my body naturally and prevent common pregnancy and birth problems before they arise. This quick course will get you the tools you need to have a naturally healthy pregnancy, labor, and delivery. My first pregnancy I had a normal western medicine all the things pregnancy. My second? I flipped to completely natural, no medicine. Bonus: Preventing Preeclampsia Without the Aspirin & Healing from Birth Trauma

4 Beginner Gardner Tips to Save YOU Time

4 Beginner Gardner Tips to Save YOU Time

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We are in the heart of gardening season in Nebraska. Plants are up, cool seasons done, most of the weeding is done, and the fruit of the labor is starting to show. It is honestly the best time. Water the garden and pick the produce and enjoy! The early hard work of establishing plants is done and the bulk of harvest is yet to come. 

 

I’m often asked when people see or hear about my gardens: “How do you get it all done?” The short answer, ‘Little by little.” I started small with my garden, a few simple easy to grow plants and have expanded from there. Every year my garden has grown a bit, with more plants, more variety, and more space. Along the way I learned a few things that help cut down on the amount of work over the summer.

 

#1 Mulch. Not just the 1-2 inches of mulch or dusting like you do when planting grass, but deep mulch. Like 4-6 inches of mulch. Why that deep? Not only does it help the moisture stay in the soil better, it blocks much of the weed growth. Will you still have to weed? Yes, but much less. Who has time to spend all day weeding anyway?

 

#2 Tackle small parts at a time. This one hit hard this year. I would look at everything that needed done, planted, weeded, prepped, watered, and simply become overwhelmed. Once I reminded myself to tackle small chunks at a time, it made the job more do-able and less stressful. I divide the garden into sections for planting, weeding and watering and stick with the smaller parts. I am more likely to finish one section before it gets too hot or the kids need me that way. 

 

#3 Try one new thing at a time. This is huge for beginners. I started with a sweet corn patch my hubby planted, some pumpkins and cucumbers that took over, and maybe a tomato plant and pepper. I cannot even count how many plants I have now without walking around the gardens. Each year I added one or two varieties to try. Became good with those and added more. I also started with small patches to experiment with so space isn't wasted.  

 

#4 Companion plant. This took me a few years to catch on to. It actually started by accident, when I couldn’t fit all my tomatoes in one spot in the garden. The results were worth repeating year after year! There was less bug damage to the overall crop when plants were mixed together. This year I took a spin on it and planted my tomatoes all in beds together, but planted basil around them. Basil tends to repel the bugs attracted to the tomatoes and I wanted more basil. It was a win-win. Check out the list of friend/foe plants I made earlier for more details. 

 

What are some lessons you’ve learned from your hobbies that others would benefit from? 



 

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Planting the Garden - Cool and Warm Season Plants

Planting the Garden - Cool and Warm Season Plants

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When starting to plant your garden pay attention to the weather and soil temperature. The planting zones are good guidelines to follow, but always pay attention to the long-term forecast. Here we are on the edge of zones 5 & 6. Some years we have an early spring (like this year), some years there’s a late frost (like 2018 & 2019). 

My recommendation is to plant as early as you can, but insulate if you are able. Temporary greenhouses can be made from PVC or other sticks and clear plastic. This gives early plants a bit more humidity, protection, and heat. You can also keep old blankets on hand or buckets and cover the plants in pots or planters when a frost is predicted. 

Common garden plants that like the cooler weather: lettuce, spinach, broccoli, cauliflower, beets, and peas. These were planted in my garden in April (minus the beets and cauliflower – we don’t like to eat those, so we don’t plant them). The lettuce and spinach I reused old water tanks that were either rusted out or broken bottom (thanks to my sister’s horse). 
The broccoli, I attempted a makeshift temporary greenhouse to try and protect it a little, to give it the best chance. The seeds I planted as an experiment are coming up and very few of the plants survived. I struggled to keep the cover up and the soaker hose I was using was not watering as well as I thought it was. I am going to try for a fall crop in the rows that didn’t make it. So be looking out for that coming this fall!

For zones 5 & 6 usually by late May the weather is good and soil temperature warm enough to plant the rest of the garden plants. Ideally you would stagger planting, but by May I’m ready for everything to be in the garden and I just plant the rest of the plants within a few days. Make sure you have something to mark your rows and plants. I use metal stakes and flags that I can stick through the seed packet. For marking varieties, I have used spoons, tongue depressors, or other markers from when I started the seeds inside. However, nothing is safe from the re-labeling of a young child. 
Mapping the garden out ahead of time also helps with staggering the planting (see last week's post). You can plant the different plants in their respective spots without having to plant everything at once. 

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Planting the Garden - Map It Out

Planting the Garden - Map It Out

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If you like to have as many plants as possible it is important to plan out where you will plant everything in your garden. I have found that if I space the bigger plants, like the tomatoes, out amongst the other plants the bugs are not as bad. If I don’t map the garden out before, I found that I run out of space or forget something. 

Some plants give off a strong fragrance that bugs don’t like. Use this to your advantage to keep the bugs in the garden away. I plant marigolds all around the boarder of my garden and have seen reduction in the bug issues I had on my plants. Onions and garlic are also pest repellents. 

If you’re going to have both green sweet peppers and hot peppers, make sure they are not next to each other. They will cross pollinate and your hot peppers will not be hot.  In general, the dryer, the hotter the peppers will be. For this reason, I tend to plant my hot peppers on the edge of the garden. They catch water, but not as much as the center of the garden. I also plant the sweet peppers and hot peppers at least halfway across the garden from each other. 

Keep in mind that some plants do well together, while others work against each other. Below is a nice graph I found that has friend and foe plants. You can pair cool season with warm season as well. For example, broccoli will be done early, pair it something that likes the hot like peppers or cabbage and you have doubled your space without adding area! Another tip is to make plants that can climb, like cucumber, climb. Add a fence or old panel for heavy plants like cucumbers, squash, or pumpkins or you can purchase a trellis. I actually take the pumpkins and squash to the irrigation engines or centers and plant them there for weed control!


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