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How do you do the holidays with multiple family gatherings and kids?!? The question comes up a lot especially this time of year. It is one of those things you must figure out once married. How do you see everyone and still maintain sanity? Before kids it is easier to drive to the multiple holiday dinners and see everyone, at least make an appearance for a few hours at each.
I have never been a fan of that though. Maybe because growing up my grandparents were divided by 8 hours and that simply wasn’t an option. I love visiting and spending all day with the family gathered. I get to talk with family I only see a few times a year, because so much physical distance separates us.
Shortly after I was married, my grandparents that lived in Colorado moved to Nebraska. I settled down about 30 minutes from my parents and farmed with my husband’s family. That left 3 out of 4 sets of grandparents within 30 minutes of us. We could totally do the holiday circus run but chose not to. Instead, we rotate.
Since both my grandparents live so close to my parents, and many of the extended family doesn’t come back on Thanksgiving or Christmas, often the holiday is celebrated together. We choose to visit the side furthest away (3 hours), even though both grandparents have now died, over Thanksgiving every year. Since this is an overnight trip, we go when the weather is usually nice and little chance of snow, to leave the farm. Christmas Eve and Christmas Day is then rotated between my parents and my husbands. Usually, we switch every year where we spend which day, but sometimes that changes depending on when family will be back.
Is this set-in stone? No. It is the general outline with flexibility for when extend family gets together. For example, this year my mom’s side is all getting together the Saturday after Thanksgiving, to celebrate my grandparent’s anniversary. Will we be there? Yes! Will we still make our normal Thanksgiving trip? Yes, we just won’t stay until Saturday!
The point is we don’t drive ourselves crazy trying to get to everyone’s dinner. Every dinner gets an entire day, to gather, to catch up, and make memories.
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What is a fear you carry deep inside? One that not many may know about, but affects many of your everyday decisions? Me? That somehow there won’t be enough, and my family will be left short.
Why does this affect my decisions? Because the last thing I want is for my family to be short somehow. Short of food, finances, or simply time.
So what do I do? First, I try to not let the fear overtake me. I acknowledge that it is there, and then remind myself of all the ways God has continued to provide for us in the past. My heart calms, and I can clearly think towards my next step. I then thank God for His provision and ask that He continue to remind me when that fear comes up again.
This fear has also been a motivator for me. When I started staying home, our income was drastically cut. While we would no longer be paying for daycare or as much in gas, we now had to pay our own insurance and the grocery bill would be increasing. How were we going to offset the cost?
I looked around. We already lived on an acreage. I had gardened some in the past, and was getting pretty good at it. Why not take it to the next level and have the garden provide as much of our food as we could!
And so it began, in more earnest. I planted more of what I knew we would consume and less of the extra stuff. I learned how to preserve our food supply for the winter. I also started learning how to grow more of the vegetables my family liked, so we weren’t buying as much at the store.
The garden is still expanding and growing. I use the winter to learn more about the next vegetable or fruit I want to grow. I take notes and perfect the methods for our farm. I’m playing with double cropping and starting a permaculture orchard now.
What started as a fear of not being able to buy enough groceries, has turned into a huge garden with the potential to meet 80% (currently around 50%) of our family’s veggie and fruit needs when it is all mature. All this from not giving into the fear, but stepping back and looking for the opportunity in the fear.
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There is something about old horses that is just too good. Maybe it is that they have seen most things and are unfazed by the noise and commotion of life. Or maybe that they have earned their living and are now peacefully enjoying retirement. But what makes them such great horses?!?
Old horses have usually had at least one carrier before they are considered too old and retire, but their life doesn’t stop there. They may have been a ranch horse working long days, or a rodeo horse used to all the noise. Maybe a professional show horse used to hauling and the arena. Maybe they were just the family trail horse who has seen more miles than could be counted.
It is an old horse's past experiences and work that make them so good, especially for beginner riders. They know most of what is up and will take care of their rider as the rider learns. This is the trait that makes them invaluable.
We’ve had two early 20s horses with our family for quite some time. The one showed his age very early. Hank, being an old ranch horse, not much physed him. My husband used him for a few years working and moving cattle, but his age caught up, and he could no longer keep up with cows that broke away. He retired to being the kids' horse. They are merely beginning to ride, but he would pack them along on the ride like it was nothing. You had better believe it was hard to say good-bye this summer when the time came.
The other has had a much easier work life. He has always been a family horse and mainly just trail rode. When I bought Mojo almost 10 years ago he already had a laid back personality, but what not the best trained. I worked with him and found that he wasn’t just laid back, but smart enough to play dumb to get out of work! I literally threw everything I could think of at him that might scare him and he quickly came to expect the weird and out of normal. Why did I do that? Because my vision for him was to be a therapy horse and I needed him bomb proof. He was the beloved mount for many special needs riders while I was teaching lessons. Now he’s my children's favorite.
See older horses may be set in their ways, but when they have good ground manners and experience, they are the perfect teacher for a novice rider.
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